When life gets tough, do the tough really get going?
More than thirty years ago, well into my adult life, some big curve balls were thrown at me.
My first baby died at birth. The umbilical cord was around his neck, as my first pregnancy with inconsistent contractions, the doctors being less than attentive, became the cause of death. As I was waiting for the surge of contractions to arrive, time went on, and not much was happening. My husband and I knew that something was wrong, so he walked down to the nurse’s station to ask for someone to check on me.
Once the nurse walked in, I could see in her face before she even came next to me that there was an issue. I had no idea what it was. But I did sense the urgency. In a matter of moments, I was rushed into a room, aided by some drugs to induce the labor – as quick as possible. 36 hours later, our first son was born, but not alive. As death stared us in the face, we were silenced by the pain.
How does a young woman – and man, face such a devastating loss? Some reach out to drink to erase the pain. Others stuff the pain down through busyness and activity. Some get angry and bitter. But the way to stay whole, can only be through the beautiful grace of Christ.
As I held this perfect beautiful baby in my arms, he was wrapped securely in a warm baby blanket, my heart had felt love like never before. At that moment, my heart, soul and mind were one with God. The One Creator of all things. I spoke from my heart to his, and said I didn’t understand this, but I would trust him with all my life and everything in it.
As I am in edit mode with my first book that shares many losses I have lived through, God has been my source of love and hope.
FOREVER HOPE will be coming out last spring, with the focus on helping those who grieve, who need hope and a Savior that is closer than we can imagine. All we need to do is reach out to him.
What do you do with the struggles of life, so many pains, hurts and obstacles to over come? Mistakes made that are so huge you think you can never overcome them.
Searching for answers.
Which way to turn?
Do I Stand still or do I move?
God never meant for us to live life on our own, or in our own strength. He strengthens us and gives us direction throughout every big, and yes even those little details.
Psalm 18:32 It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect.
Isaiah 49:9 to say to the captives, ‘Come out,’ and to those in darkness, ‘Be free!’ “They will feed beside the roads and find pasture on every barren hill.
Do you feel like you’ve missed the mark, made the wrong turn, there’s damage done to others, yourself or _____. (You fill in the blank.)
We can never move forward in life if we don’t conquer our own issues. If you’ve come to a place of surrender, stop. Let God help. Let Him guide and direct in the way you should go.
Romans 8:1AKJVThere is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.
No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us.
Seems easy right? It really is, once we relinquish the fight. I know, I’ve been there, and continue to learn – daily. We never really “arrive” until we let God move in and trust in him so completely, that we wonder why we waited so long to let God do what he needs to do.
Let him take over. Take your hands off of it, whatever it is. Whether it’s letting go of an adult child, an alcoholic spouse, a job that you just can’t bear, lack of funds, or sickness. There is nothingso far gone that He sees as irrevocable or something so seemingly permanent that it cannot be changed. God is a God who restores; he takes our mistakes, errs and turns them each into good things. He isthat awesome and wonderful. His names are Wonderful – Counselor and Mighty God, he is so full of mercy, and slow to anger
Isaiah 9:6 For to us a child is born. To us a son is given; and the government will be on his shoulders. His name will be called Wonderful,Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Psalms 145:8 The Lord is full of grace – not quickly angered, but great in mercy. …
Luke 1:37 tells us that with God nothing shall be impossible.
Many people have learned the opposite. Thinking is the God of wrath and anger. No!!! How could he have created such phenomenal creations throughout the world? He is, after all, – the Creator of the Universe – the one who made the ocean meet the sky. The one who makes the sun to rise every morning and hues so beautiful – we stand in awe! He made YOU, in his own image. He is jealous for you! He wants YOU and all of your attentions to be towards Him in and through life’s entire journey
Think of it this way: You have a child, one that you waited and planned for, for years. This perfect specimen arrives on its day – specified for that moment in time by God himself. You love that child; you take care of him/her. Bath, feed, coddle, love, kiss and make sure he/she is well at all costs. You have become so crazy in love with this child. To be away from him/ her for long extended periods of time, just eats you up inside. You desire to be with this child. This child grows up to be an adult, and decides to not be in contact with you much. Don’t you just want to loose a gasket?!?!?! Sure you do! That is how it is with God. He YEARNS for your attention. Your undying love to him – just as he feels towards you
Though your own child may upset you, do inappropriate things at times, make big and small mistakes – but that does not change the way you feel. You still want to be with that child, at all costs. Because you also know you can help him/her to prevent making mistakes, you can guide them – just like the Father in Heaven wants to do for you – except he knows all things – at all times.
Won’t you come to the safety of the Most High God. The one who gave you life and wants to help you along the way. Life is much too fleeting to wait. Don’t waste yet another moment of sleepless nights, headaches or worse. Come to the Father. Today. Give him all of your thoughts and concerns. I promise, you wont’ be disappointed.
Lord thank you for this gracious most awesome LOVE you give to me. You are such a mighty God, I am in awe of what you do and how you love me so. Thank you for your mercy, and grace. Lord I let go of what I am struggling with this very moment. I am letting you take the reigns; I have tried to fix it, and just made things worse. I don’t want to struggle; you have set me free, and do not condemn me. For that I am grateful. I ask and trust that you move these mountains that stand so high in front of me, and let YOUremove them with my faith and will not doubt. I want to be like those before me who like in Hebrews 11, had such great faith to trust you. I want to be that person too. I praise you and am expecting your wonderful power to shine through, so you get all the glory!
Got done reading this wonderful book on Sandi’s life. It’s amazing how we can be so gifted, yet struggle with something. We all do. Struggle. It’s real. It’s honesty that frees us from the pain of these issues.
Pain comes to kill steal and destroy, a ploy from Satan himself. We know that he lurks around to thwart God’s gifts in our lives.
Never ever believe those lies.
What is wonderful to understand, that people who are known world wide, with great talents do INDEED have things to “deal” with that are hard. We live in an age where its instant and quick – people in general don’t look at the whole picture, and only want to see the pretty stuff. In a perfect world, that would be nice. I don’t like struggle either, not at all. Reality is hard at times, but we CAN indeed have hope and wholeness. Sandi shares this in her new book THE VOICE.
I related to many insecurites that Sandi spoke of. One made me smile and chuckle a bit. (small spoiler alert here). She said how she felt so uncomfortable reading outloud in class as a child. I did too! So much so, that she’d count how many people / paragraphs it would be til it came to her, I DID THE SAME THING. Because we didn’t think we had a voice. It’d be embarassing if a word was spoken incorrectly, talked to soft or too loud. What if a sneeze came bursting out in the middle of a sentence? We didn’t want to be called out, nor embarrassed if we made a mistake. How many others felt the same shame. How sad. We should never have to feel insecure, especially as an innocent child.
The story goes on from there. Insecurites are real. It is how we deal with them that either sends us in hiding or helps us to flourish! Choose to flourish!
But we are indeed more than conquerors when we have Jesus in us.
Please get your copy today, and buy one for someone who struggles with some issue. This will help to bring understanding that no one has to live in silence. Freedom is ours. Take it!
We live in the real world. Real problems, that can bring hardship, loss, disappointment, regret, shame and a host of other very negative emotional stress. Circumstances vary for all people, but the struggle is real.
When disappoint becomes a mountain. Bruises from people who offer rejection, and pain that digs deep into your heart and mind.
When the sleepless nights won’t let up, tears flow with ease like an open faucet…..
Does life seem to difficult to bear from the rough times you have been going through? It’s time to leave that behind. Yes, leave it. Is it easy to wallow in that muck, or better to take one stop into happiness. One steps leads to another, and another until you are once again on the mountain top. Find it, it belongs to you – today! If you notice I highlighted the letters in each paragraph to say WWJD. Kinda worked out that way – because JESUS is JOY. Jesus brings life and he gives it to us in abundance. More than enough, not stuck in the rut of the junk that happens. I know too well, stuff happens in life that can suck the life out of ya. Loss of a husband, children by way of death. Yeah, big ones. Getting older, loss of body function that was so healthy and strong, decides to break down one day from the stressors I suppose. Friendships lost. Family problems to deal with. Loss of a home, job and the list goes on. You get the idea… you fill in the blanks for what has happened to you personally. If you are walking through the valley of death, of which doesn’t mean dying physically, but the death of circumstances like a friend did you wrong, a coworker got the promotion and raise you had been working towards and just knew was yours…… or whatever it may be… own it for the moment. Feel the sorrow and pain. But then dust yourself off, (and I am totally speaking to myself right now), put on your big people pants and suck it up buttercup – and LAUGH at that THING that has groped you for too long. Find laughter from children playing at a park, animals who do silly things, a good comedy act or movie, a silly song from long ago (like the Monster Mash) that makes you smile.
I’m tired of being tired when life goes south and sours my soul. Enough is Enough, as Babs and Donna Summer sang. Moving out of the mire and into GOd’s marvelous light. Joy. Comes. Today.
Laughter decreases stress hormones and increases immune cells and infection-fighting antibodies, thus improving your resistance to disease. Laughter triggers the release of endorphins, the body’s natural feel-good chemicals. Endorphins promote an overall sense of well-being and can even temporarily relieve pain.
Heres a cute video of kids and silly activities that happen –
Verse ONE: [A Psalm by David.]The LORD is my shepherd; I lack nothing.
Psalm 23 is often, in our culture, used at funerals. It reminds us that God is THEE God of comfort. He cares for his sheep (us). He guides those who love him into peace and rest. When we are lost, he shows us the way, when we ask, and live for him. When we are broken and bruised, he heals us. Jesus, His Son, is our Savior. We need a Savior to forgive us. David, who wrote this, about 1000 B.C., shows us through this sweet passage, that the LORD cares for us, as a shepherd to his sheep. We are, throughout the Bible, spoken of as sheep. We wander, we graze, unknowingly often times into places we shouldn’t go, if He is not leading us. We have the choice as people to ask God to lead us. If we don’t, then he lets us stray and walk until we cry out to him…… baaaaaa…..baaaaaaaa…. Lead me Lord, won’t you lead me.
The stressors of life can bog us down. God is so good to relieve us of that stress, when we allow him to. Ask, and it shall be given, pressed down, shaken together and running over – peace grab it, it’s yours! You need it. I need it. We need to accept it.
David seemed to have written this with such a sweet calmness, a quiet confidence, most likely as an adult, after many trials he had walked through, which taught him how to trust God completely. God never leaves us. He never waivers. He is with us all the days of our life. He completes us. He guides us. God is in fact our all and all.
Verse one, shows us his graciousness to you and I. He is relational. He did create us after all. We are in covenant with him. Therefore, he takes good care of us. Verse one tells us he has given us all we need. We won’t lack anything we need. He feeds us, guides us through our life, and protects us. That is provision. Hallelujah! He gives me – and you – provision to have what we need. Sweet Jesus! We don’t have to achieve or bounce through all kinds of hoops to have Him give us the things we need. Our abilities come from HIM. We don’t have to prove we are worthy, we are not. His grace at the cross cleansed us. We fail in our humanity. Oops we did “it” again!
The Shepherd, is a powerful representation of Jesus – the coming Messiah. Yes! We are awaiting his return, one day for eternity. Maybe we will beat the Second coming of the Lord, but either way, the Shepherd is keeping us safe so we will be in Heaven forever!
We don’t have to do this life alone. God is my resource to show me what to do. He is my friend to hear my conversations – the good, bad and ugly. He is my shield. He is My Provider. Amen.
The next blog we will continue with the second verse of Psalm 23.
Until then, here is a list of reference scriptures for you to print or download this week. Take time to journal the 23rd Psalm. Ask God to reveal sweet refrains of his love and promises while you journal. Accept the blessings you have, and the ones to come. If you are in need of something, healing, job, money, wisdom, whatever the need, ask him. He is ready to help you. He loves you so much! 🙂 So do I, my web friend. Rejoice in him, because he sure does rejoice over you!
I was on my phone one evening, you know, scrolling, scrolling, time wasting, as I was unwinding my busy brain, so I could get to sleep. I love animals. So, of course, when a cute rolly polly set of bears video came up, I had to watch them playfully walk through someones backyard, as if they were dogs that belonged to that particular home, it made me smile. I just want to hug them! Oh, if they didn’t have such big claws and mean teeth that would rip me to shreds….I wish I could kiss those noses…. ok, let me dream a little, please!
Got sidetracked by bear adorableness… continuing on with the story. Endless videos continued to scroll, you know how when one completes, the next one pops up … which brought me to an ugly ol’ python! Yuck and yuck! Those things are HA-UGE! I was drawn in, as I watched with one eye closed the other eye sort of crooked, not wanting to watch, yet I was saying “NO” outloud, how could this be?
It was devouring, veryyyy slowly – s.l.o.w.l.y…. a baby dear, it had to be at least a few weeks or possibly a few months old. I don’t know how fast they grow, but it was a wee one for sure. Poor momma, if she were around… makes me sad baby had to go through that slimy creatures belly. That snake just adapts to whatever it eats. The skin and all just expounds. Can I say YUCK again!?? Ewe!!
How can something with that little face, no legs, no arms, do so much damage? I know…. keep reading, I will justify my point, I get how the animal culture works.
Now, I know, you are cringing. I am too. Save the baby. Save the deer and CRUSH that snakes head into smithereens. As a visual, I normally would use a photograph to illustrate my point, but that is much too graphic. I decided to spare everyone the impression of Bambi Brunch, not wanting it engraved in your mind forever…….but maybewe need to have that shock value in our memory base.
Let me explain……
Yes, we know that the way of the animal kingdom needs to pray on each other. Mr S, as I will call him, was hungry. As sick as it is for us humans to fathom. It turned my stomach, he was hungry and needed to eat, but it got me thinking.
Let’s get real with each other. We all have struggles. Bad things happen. We go through dark times, difficulties beyond our control. Mistakes made, purposed or innocently that take us down a rocky terrain. We must always be careful, and mindful of this snake’s sneakiness want’s us to fall in the messy unstable rocks. Yes, of course there are obvious times that he attacks very obviously. But like a phython, they blend in, quietly, waiting for it’s prey to feel weakened. There is a sensory in our demeanor, whether we speak out the words or not, he knows when to attack. Once he has his grip on you, like our baby deer, he chokes, leaving the victim without breath, the heart stops and dies. The bible tells us Satan comes to kill steal and destroy. The caveat to that verse, is that we are to be aware of onslaught and be prepared with God’s Armor and His Word because GOD sent Jesus to GIVE US LIFE – ABUNDANT life.
The hold Satan has on some lasts a lifetime. The subtle words from a family member or friend that leaves you feeling ugly, owrthless or not smart – all lies. God made YOU IN HIS IMAGE! Which means you are alright! You do NOT have to allow Satan to wrap his long eight foot body around you with the intention of a slow. kill. No! You are fingerprinted and designed for amazing things so you can tell YOUR story to others. God gets the glory!
The snake is related to the ENEMY of our soul. The devil, is called the serpent. (Gen. 3 and Rev. 20). He slithers around quietly, on the look out crawling around in a pretty field like this, determinted to be as patient as he needs to be, awaiting his prey. Who will he devour today? …. and he has a team, that works towards ruining us believers, he does not work alone.
Take your amazing graced AUTHORITY – because YOU are an OVERCOMER. No more living in the death and distruction that the enemy unfolds before your path. Take your authority with the WORD OF GOD – and LIVE LIFE TO THE FULLEST! AMEN!
Hmm, the words PREY and PRAY – sound the same, how about the meaning; PREY, is to mark, spoil, game, kill, victimize, quest; to PRAY is to ask, get permission, beseech, say, commune with. When you are in the midst of a trial, or have an unsettling sense that life is amiss, whether in the moment or over a long period of time, stop and pray. Pray over the one who preys to put you in a minor or major path of distruction.
For further scripture studying on the enemy, aka serpent, snake, devourer, grab your devotional journal to take notes, then dig into the word to learn the POWER YOU HAVE over him. Awareness is key. You are bought by the Blood of Christ, you win over all tactics of the devil. But never underestimate his power, he comes to kill steal and destroy.
Father, we come to you, with our sometimes, most times, weakened lives, wishing I had not made a comment, gotten angry, hurt someone, or ________ (you fill in the blank). But you are Soverign and full of mercy and grace. I come humbly yet with assurance to ask for forgiveness for this sin. These sins. wash me clean. Thank you for letting me begin again. I love you Jesus. The enemy is crushed. He has NO power over my life, nor my families life. It was finished at Calvary. Thank you Lord. Amen
I am Battle Ready book is a newly launched and written by Kelly Balarie. It’s been pretty amazing so far, as I dig into the wealth of information she has offered, all biblcally based. Do you need some change? Join me, as we walk a new path, learning how God can make us into new creations. Yes. NEW. Newness of life, is what Jesus offers.
Kelly, like me, like you, and every single person in the world has a struggle, whether it is a current one, something you have overcome, or need to overcome, this book will help transform your life. How? Well, let me tell you how, first and foremost with a biblical foundation, nothing can be permanently changed. Kelly does such a fantastic scriptural description, in every chapter, that I needed a journal to write along. There is something about writing out what God is speaking into our heart, when we willingly take the word, write it out, speak it out, live it out, letting it become a transforming position within the deepest part of our life, we can then change. I am in that process…. still. Sometimes change comes quickly. Other things are so deep rooted within us, due to circumstances in our life, or how we were born with certain traits. This book is transforming me deeply. God’s word does that, and Battle Ready is indeed helping me to overcome obstacles! Thank God!
Ya know this life throws mind confusing crazy things at us, and we need to CONQUER our thought life, and live like we KNOW who we are IN CHRIST!!!!! 1 Cor. 6:19-20. Why? Because Christ lives in me, in us, we shouldn’t doubt, or fear. I need help this … NOW….
When those thoughts come in, RUN into the WORD, and use tools like I AM BATTLE READY to help fight off the battle of the mind. Preperation is key. Know the WORD of GOD to fight this battle! YES YES AND YES! BELIEVE IN THE MISSION God has given you. I have to remind myself too, that he guides me to accomplish ALL he has planned in my life.
We take one step at a time, using tools, like Kelly’s wisdom, as she has learned first hand how to make these changes in her own life, and share with us to do the same. It’s helping me to become more focused and intentional when I am feeling blue, depressed, having a bad day etc, that I will speak theWORD OF GOD into my life. When I do that the atmosphere changes. The enemy can’t stay around and pull me down when Jesus and HIS WORD are spoken!
Trusting God first is the most important component. He will transform our mind, he is doing that in me as I write this blog. It’s humbling, refreshing, loving, and oh, how wonderful is my Father, the lover of my soul, to use other followers of Jesus, to help me. As I change, those around me see the morphing. As I pray during my own stripping of the old, and living freer than ever before, people have been prayed for, before I even meet them. So, you see, this crossover, is not about me, well, some of it is. But for the glory of God. That others will see Him in me. That is how this book can change and help you.
I will be a warrior in this life! On the WINNING side. How about you? Are you ready to become BATTLE READY? Head over to this link to order your book now:
Oh, how I love God’s word.
It cuts to the core.
Unlike the pious and pretentious world we live in today. Seems that political correctness is the mindset to live by according to today’s standards. NOT! As Christians, we do not conform to the ways of the world. The Devil controls the airwaves, so we must be conscious to speak and LIVE in Christ, daily, moment by moment.
I was reading today in Psalms 53, I will be honest, I can be daring with my conversation at times, but THIS chapter cuts to the core. You can read the message version here. I am using the Message Bible as I read through the Word this year. It is written in today’s language. Some don’t care for the Word to be untraditionally set, but sometimes we need to read various versions to help us understand better what is being said (versions that are true to the Judeo Christian beliefs). In Ps. 53 today, I sat there and said OUCH a few times… and highlighted/noted a few words and key points.
I was praying and talking to God before reading this chapter, (I love how the Holy Spirit prepares the way when we ask for HIS wisdom), so this really hit home for me personally. During which, I know I have residue in my life that needs a deep cleansing. My spiritual heart weeps at my shortcomings. Yes, they are there. Some deep, and wide. I prayed, Lord, forgive me, heal me. I need your help to live like you. As a woman after God’s heart. That is my longing and deepest desire. May I be a light in this very dark world.
I don’t want to be a “wannabe” follower of Christ. My desire is to be the real deal. For others to see HIM IN ME wherever I go. Yet, I fail. I fall short. Jesus knew I would. that was his purpose while he walked this earth. He is my example and my deepest desire to walk in his ways. High expectations yes. But if I don’t have those to look to, I, like stated in Psalm 53, am nothing more than foul, full of poison, stupid, empty, lacking, an imposter, and oh my, vs 5 hit me hard…… I certainly do NOT want to be labeled a squatter. Ugh, YUCK and oh nasty.
Squatters are people who occupy someplace with no legal right, live unlawfully, and basically, steal from the place they live in. I/ We need to keep guard, and a watchful eye to not let the enemy slither into our mind and lives.
We need to walk the walk of FAITH.
How many people say they are a “Christ follower”? Self-labeled a Christian, but don’t read the Word. Never taking time to fellowship with other believers, or take time to pray and truly communicate with God? I do love the Word of God, I have many Bibles and devotions I read, and truly, in my heart of hearts, in my deepest desire, want to utilize and walk out the life He has to offer me. But, I still fall short.
That is what I was praying for last night and this morning. As I live this life, I have been hurt, assuredly hurt others (not purposefully of course, but miscommunication, or lack of ….. we know, stuff happens) and sometimes caught in the valleys that seemingly have no end. The death of loved ones that go before us occur…. often times much too soon, leaving voids and a heart that misses other so desperately it hurts. So many other issues that happen, the pain is real. But so is joy. What will we choose?
It is in that place of desperate need, the need of HIS GRACE to fill us up; but he won’t until I run into HIS arms, seeking forgiveness for the errs created, intentional or not.
As you read the Word, I pray that you seek after the wisdom he wants to teach you. The wisdom that can be shared with others, by living it out. When dark times come, mistakes are made, quickly turn to Him and ask for his help and forgiveness.
Walk with me in this life – that is oh so temporary, and live for Him. Shedding all things of that hinder us so we will be light to those we meet along our path. Together, we CAN conquer this world, because we have Jesus in us.
Love you friends…. may today be a wonderful peaceful Beacon of Hope day for you.
Do you wonder if the devil is real? He is.
Here are some scriptures that speak of him, and how to resist that skanky one.
Here is a PDF for you to print out, (it’ll download to your computer). While you print that, grab your bible, pen, and journal to take notes. We have the power in JESUS to denounce the enemy of our soul. Be sure to pray before you start, for wisdom and God’s protection while you study. He is faithful to answer your requests! 🙂
1 Corinthians 7:5
1 John 3:8
2 Corinthians 4:4
2 Corinthians 11:3
2 Corinthians 12:1-10
1 Peter 5:8-9
Scripture Mapping Page
…….A day that is set aside to celebrate and reflect.
As I was driving to my destination today, just as every April 24th rolls around for the past 21 years, a song has come on the radio, as if to say “I am with you Donna. Happy Anniversary, I still love you, even from Heaven.”, it touches my heart, and tears flow.
God works that way. Healing comes in the way of songs, notes, words someone might say. A reminder of the friendship that grew. Brian (my husband) was one of two trusted best friends in my life. Someone that I knew would have my back. He knew me. Although we had very different lifestyles. He was a bad boy growing up, and I never dared to get into any kind of trouble. He was incredibly worldly, I wasn’t. His very dry humor would make my eyes roll and want to have a drum in hand to do a BUDUM-Bump. He would do the same with my silly and sometimes very twisted humor. He was a Rocker to loud and obnoxious (my description to his style of music), I was a dancer to the beat. Yet with our differences, we found that middle ground. Neither of us arrived at perfection. We certainly had our share of shortcomings, big and small. Yet, There’s still Something that moves me still. Grief and love never go away.
You’re asking me will my love grow
I don’t know, I don’t know
You stick around and it may show
I don’t know, I don’t know
Something in the way she knows
And all I have to do is think of her
Something in the things she shows me
I don’t want to leave her now
You know I believe and how…
(Something, by the Beatles – a wedding song we played, and one that touches my soul, 36 years later).
~ it is an Endless Love
— Although Brian is not here now, on earth, he is living in Heaven – free and full of joy. I rejoice in his freedom, and one day we will be together again.
Jesus is real. Heaven is forever. Salvation was Brian’s on the day He said “Jesus live in my life, you are my Savior”.
He struggled for 18 years with his denomination, who told him he (and I, because I wouldn’t covert to that denomination) was going to hell.
So incredibly awful of a priest to say, because only God is the one who says WELCOME into The Kingdom.
Forgiveness is yours to ask for while on this earth.No one has to wait. Brian, through much prayer and guidance, found freedom, 18 years after struggling with what that one ugly comment, which had him spiritually bound and tied, for much too long. It is only through Jesus who is the Redeemer who freed Brian. I bet he never realized that he’d be a white boy who would dance — in heaven!
Ha! This dancing girl DID teach him he’d dance! 🙂 yeah!
For those who have yet to loose a loved one to death, please never be cliche with those who are living with death of a loved one. The survived one, never EVER just gets OVER it. NEVER.
That is one of the most inappropriate things to say.
What should you say or do? Love. be there. Send a card. Inbox a big hello with a personal note. Just be there. The week of the death. And even years later. Never be cliche nor ignore the loss that is so evident after a death.